Do I Want God, or Only God on My Terms? Matthew 11:16–19 Jesus compared His generation to children sitting in the marketplace. “We played the flute for you, and you did not dance; we sang a dirge, and you did not mourn.” They were invited to celebrate, but they would not dance. They were invited to mourn, but they would not grieve. The problem was not the kind of music being played. The problem was a heart determined not to respond. Jesus then showed how this picture had already been lived out in the responses to John the Baptist and to Himself. John Came, but They Would Not Listen John lived an austere life. He lived in the wilderness, ate simply, and proclaimed a serious message: “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” His life and message carried the solemn tone of mourning. Yet the people did not repent. Instead, they said: “He has a demon.” When God’s message made them uncomfortable, they attacked the messenger rather than examining themselves. We can do something similar....